Sunday, March 30, 2008
Q3. Some people like being alone; others are happiest when they are with a crowd of people. Which do you prefer?
Personally, I prefer being alone. Being alone means that I have my own freedom and I do not have to give in to anyone's wants or needs. It also means I can do whatever I want anytime and anywhere. Not being chained to a group of people who can't make desicions quickly and end up wasting alot of time. Being alone, I can manage my own time the way I want it to be. Being alone also means that nobody needs to give in to me too.
Everyone is different in their own way and sometimes, things clash and so, people do not agree with each other, so when in a group, some people may want to go to a certain place but the rest of the people may beg to differ. Without planning beforehand, going out with a crowd of people proves to waste alot of precious time. Though there are still pleasures in going out with a crowd of people. These people are my friends, so it can't be that bad. Usually, when hanging out with friends, it is fun but also, time-consuming. We usually enjoy the company of our friends and thus, we are happy when we are with them. There are some factors too when in a crowd of people. For example, in the most common cases, usually one person would feel left out in the group with the rest of the people oblivious to it.
Although contradicting, I am a very self-consious person. I'd always wonder what would people think of me if i'm alone. So being in a crowd of people reassures my insecurities when I am self-consious about my surroundings.
Towards studies, I can only study alone. Being with a crowd of people affects my ability to concentrate and thus, little work will be done. With music plugged, in an isolated location, studying alone can be really enjoyable. I'd feel stressed if there is anyone looking at me when I study.
Recess time is the time when I must have at least one human with me. It is almost impossible to see me eating in the canteen alone.
Overall, I feel that whether it is being alone or with a crowd of people, it all depends on the situations I am in. Irony plays a huge part too. When I need someone, there isn't anyone there for me. When I don't need them, they are there. Having said that, one should always enjoy every single time they have with or without their friends.
CIAOS!
Everyone is different in their own way and sometimes, things clash and so, people do not agree with each other, so when in a group, some people may want to go to a certain place but the rest of the people may beg to differ. Without planning beforehand, going out with a crowd of people proves to waste alot of precious time. Though there are still pleasures in going out with a crowd of people. These people are my friends, so it can't be that bad. Usually, when hanging out with friends, it is fun but also, time-consuming. We usually enjoy the company of our friends and thus, we are happy when we are with them. There are some factors too when in a crowd of people. For example, in the most common cases, usually one person would feel left out in the group with the rest of the people oblivious to it.
Although contradicting, I am a very self-consious person. I'd always wonder what would people think of me if i'm alone. So being in a crowd of people reassures my insecurities when I am self-consious about my surroundings.
Towards studies, I can only study alone. Being with a crowd of people affects my ability to concentrate and thus, little work will be done. With music plugged, in an isolated location, studying alone can be really enjoyable. I'd feel stressed if there is anyone looking at me when I study.
Recess time is the time when I must have at least one human with me. It is almost impossible to see me eating in the canteen alone.
Overall, I feel that whether it is being alone or with a crowd of people, it all depends on the situations I am in. Irony plays a huge part too. When I need someone, there isn't anyone there for me. When I don't need them, they are there. Having said that, one should always enjoy every single time they have with or without their friends.
CIAOS!
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